Ongoing
As soon as someone says stop, it stops.
The house rules
Good nights need good rules.
Kink can be rough, debauched, and wonderfully open. It still starts with a genuine, enthusiastic yes — and a room where people know how to look after each other.
01 / Consent
OMFG. Remember it.
Consent is not the absence of a no. It is the presence of a genuine and enthusiastic yes. Use the OMFG framework whenever you are unsure — and take silence as a reason to pause, not permission to continue.
Mutual
Every partner — whether one or one hundred — must be consenting.
Freely given
Consent is never coerced, forced, begged for, or badgered into existence.
Genuine
If you are not sure they are into it, check. Then check again.
02 / Care
Keep the energy good.
We want you to have a brilliant night and get your rocks off safely. These small habits keep the room open, comfortable, and ready for everyone.
Safe sex
Condoms and water-based lube are available in dispensers around the play spaces.
Feel unwell?
An advanced first aider is at every event. Tell the team if you or someone else needs help.
Keep it clear
Tell staff about spills, broken glass, or anything that could make the floor unsafe.
Keep it private
Official photography only. Keep phones in the cloakroom or in your pocket.
Bring less
Every guest is subject to a bag search. Bring only what you need to make the door faster for everyone.
Ask for Albert
If you need somewhere safe to talk, ask any member of staff for Albert.
Need support?
- Our team can help on the night — start by asking for Albert.
- LGBT Foundation offers support around sexual health, drugs, alcohol, and chemsex.
- George House Trust supports people living with HIV and challenges stigma.